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| 11 FEB 2006 at 1:59am |
ShadowWalkerJourneyman
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Status : Offline | Hello There!
I remember when tattoos were an oddity as far back as 1980, on both men and women.
Personally, I really do not go out of my way to look upon tattoo's as something to be estigmatized.
However, as far as men and particularly women are concerned, I do have a particula bias.
NO TATTOO'S
Why!
I consider that the human body, particularly the female human body, it is already a work of art.
The flowing lines, the hollows and ondulations of the muscles, the curvature of the flesh, the tonal pigmentation, the delightful play of light on clear and healthy skin are all lost with the addition of a tattoo.
As Sir Dave put it. Many young women are putting tattoos in their upper butt/lower back.
To me, this is an area of enormeous erotic, sensual, and spiritual pleasure, at least for me, and just about any classical artist or illustrator who delights in elevating the female form into heights approaching nothing less than an olympian goddess through either paintings or digital artwork.
Ever gazed at work by Boris Vallejo, or his wife Julie Bell. How about work by Clyde Caldwell, Keith Parkinson, even Larry Elmore.
Their heroines are the epitome of human perfection, and erotic aspirations and dreams. All sans tattoo's.
I have met a few women, who displayed to me with enormeous pride their tattoo's. The choice of doing so was theirs, and though it may not detract from their femeninity. It certainly detracts from my desire for them. I did say that I was indeed biased.
A woman, healthy, in shape, with a good set of genes, to me can be one of the most delightful reminders of why is it that I find the female form so desirable, beautiful, and satisfying. My choice.
Those women who get tattoo's is also their choice. But not in my camp!
To each their own, but I wonder for everyone of those who do not regret it, how many other do regret it afterwards?
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| 11 FEB 2006 at 2:36am |
CarolineJA+ Overseer
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I insist you write something nice like this every month. Perks me up no end it does, hearing a man praise womanhood. Small of the back eh? That's definitely one area I never thought men thought about.
What then is the general male reaction here to young girls flaunting their g-strings above their hipster pants? What about visible bra straps? Go on, I'd love to know how much of modern women's dress standards hits the mark. not that I intend to follow any of it you understand, just curious).
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| 11 FEB 2006 at 2:49am |
AvatarPrivate Detective
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Status : Online | Originally Posted By Caroline (11 FEB 2006 2:35am)
young girls flaunting their g-strings above their hipster pants
(I've heard that particular phenomenon is called a "whale tail" which - I think - is really quite funny.... except when my hubby is staring at it.)
My goal in life is to be as good of a person as my dog already thinks I am.&&&&The measure of civility in a society is not how it treats those that are loved, but how it treats those that are hated.
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| 11 FEB 2006 at 3:23am |
ShadowWalkerJourneyman
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Well Caroline. No! They do not hit the mark.
A long time ago.........................
In a life far, far away.........................
I used to titilate at Playboy, and Penthouse. [smiley=devil_smiley_grintail.gif]
No more...............
Why!
I grew, and matured out of them.
Sometimes I rent porn, but I try to get high quality ones. [smiley=angel_smiley.gif]
Or films where the erotism is not in the sex alone, but the scenery, and scene set up!
One of my favorite erotic scenes in a film is the one shown in Fatal Attraction, when Michael Douglas is watching his screen wife Ann Archer, getting ready to go out while she is seated in front of her bedroom makeup mirror in nothing but her underwear. Watching her in that scene is to me one of the most erotic, sensual and unforgettable moments of female appreciation I have ever witnessed.
When I finally get married, my wife will have to have a liking for garter belts, stockings, high heel shoes, and bustier, and if she wears it just to put on makeup. Fantastic! [smiley=slurp.gif]
Call me a dog, but I do have certain fetishes and needs, and most of these run around making the female look as gloriously and sensual as possible Caroline.
Oh! Yes! Kate Beckinsale and that super tight rubber costume just make me melt!
That one rrrrrrrrreeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaallllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllyyyyyyyyyyyyyy hits the mark! [smiley=love.gif]
Oh....... Yesss.......... My Goddess................. I have been bad.................. Very, Very Bad..............
I need to be re-educated............... Punishement is needed.................. Re-Assesment of your domination is expected and desired...........................
Did I just drift......................... [smiley=shocked.gif]
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| 11 FEB 2006 at 4:25am |
CarolineJA+ Overseer
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Status : Offline | No. no.... go right ahead.... don't mind us.... really..... we'll show ourselves out..... [smiley=rofl.gif]
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| 11 FEB 2006 at 4:55am |
ShadowWalkerJourneyman
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Show ourselves out. Well.
I guess you can pretty much sum up that I have certain needs.
Problem is that it often is difficult to find someone to share them with.
But as you can see, besides the fetish likes, I also dislike tattoos since it obscures that object of desire.
The female form in all of its glorious contours and subtleties. Shame so many women seem to overlook this.
And believe that a "tattoo" is a pass into liberation and uniqueness. When in truth they possess all they need to be unique and memorable. Their bodies and most importantly, the mystique of their personality, if they care to share it and display it openly to men who may just find them fascinating all of themselves.
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| 11 FEB 2006 at 6:23am |
CarolineJA+ Overseer
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I think it is only fair to point out that not every woman regards her body's sole purpose in life to be an object of desire for men. Some women have tattoos because they like them.
I think it's important to have a relationship with the person inside the body, (the actual female person) not just with the body itself, (her breasts, buttocks, etc) if you understand my meaning.
As for fetishes. Most men would appreciate a woman sweetly scented and deliciously wrapped and presented in fine lingerie..... but doesn't a fetish mean that something is absolutely essential for arousal?
I would think any woman would find it boring having to put the bustier on every single time. I can see that she'd deliberately 'forget' to pack it for their round the world second honeymoon and enjoy a bit of liberation, not to mention peace and quiet. [smiley=devil_smiley_grintail.gif]
Surely everyone has fantasies that go unfulfilled. Could you ever be happy with a woman who didn't have a figure suitable for a CatWoman suit? What about if she did, but she simply didn't want to? Maybe you'd simply have to make do with whatever was on offer. What's that saying? Any port in a storm?
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| 11 FEB 2006 at 9:36am |
SkyeSorcerer Apprentice
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Status : Online | Originally Posted By Caroline (10 FEB 2006 12:01pm)
Ponder is a family man Skye. Not all men can wear rings. When I married my hubby he worked as a mechanical engineer - a ring would have been dangerous.
Oh I understand about no rings at work. I work in a food processing plant and no jewelry of any kind is permitted.
Doesn't stop me from wearing my ring when I'm not at work though . . .
Skye
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| 11 FEB 2006 at 10:55am |
CarolineJA+ Overseer
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Status : Offline | That's because you're a girl. Some men don't 'do' jewellry for any reason. I don't care for bracelets on a man but a ring or two is okay, ditto a neck chain. I don't think much of earrings though, although some young blokes really suit them.
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| 12 FEB 2006 at 12:11am |
MissBSchattenjger
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Status : Online | Originally Posted By Avatar (10 FEB 2006 11:54pm)
hi. i'm back. i got bored.
Bullsh*t. You went and got another tattoo, didn't you? [smiley=bullcrap.gif]
PS-I'm going to pm you a tattoo site you have to see! [smiley=laughing.gif]
My name is Bethany and I'm the daughter of Gamergal/Michelle.
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| 12 FEB 2006 at 12:53am |
HelenGuild Master
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Status : Offline | Originally Posted By Michelle (12 FEB 2006 12:10am)
Originally Posted By Avatar (10 FEB 2006 11:54pm)
hi. i'm back. i got bored.
Bullsh*t. You went and got another tattoo, didn't you? [smiley=bullcrap.gif]
LOL!
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| 12 FEB 2006 at 2:21am |
CarolineJA+ Overseer
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Status : Offline | PS-I'm going to pm you a tattoo site you have to see!
Why just her? I think we should all see it. Come one Michelle. Share it with us all.
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| 12 FEB 2006 at 3:28am |
AvatarPrivate Detective
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Status : Online | um, I don't think it would be appropriate to post it online... some of the "tattoos" pictured on the site are not quite appropriate for those who are ... sensitive. :-[
and yes... i got another tattoo... it's of a little man with a lawnmower.
My goal in life is to be as good of a person as my dog already thinks I am.&&&&The measure of civility in a society is not how it treats those that are loved, but how it treats those that are hated.
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| 12 FEB 2006 at 4:14am |
CarolineJA+ Overseer
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Status : Offline | we all have pm abilty you know. I think this habit of talking about secrets openly and not sharing them is a blatent abuse of the pm function and I intend to complain to the Goddess of all Goddesses...... >
whatever happened to solidarity among goddesses? was there ever any?
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| 12 FEB 2006 at 6:06am |
AllanonJourneyman
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Status : Offline | Originally Posted By Ponder (9 FEB 2006 6:29pm)
Reworded for clarity:
Need thoughts on getting a spouses name tatooed on themselves... for example husband getting the wife's name or wife getting the husband's name... say, eh, on the arm.
What's your opinion?
Gut reactions?
After deep thought?
Thanks!!
Tattoos ... have a few ... That said , get as many as you want ! Never get names !! Get something you enjoy !! Who cares ??!! It's your body !! Don't ask - if you are , don't get one ... cheers !!
You only live once , but , if you live right , once is enough . Being happy takes work ...
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| 13 FEB 2006 at 9:41pm |
ShadowWalkerJourneyman
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Status : Offline | Originally Posted By Caroline (11 FEB 2006 6:23am)
ShadowWalker,
I think it is only fair to point out that not every woman regards her body's sole purpose in life to be an object of desire for men. Some women have tattoos because they like them.
Hello There!
No Caroline, I would never consider that to be the woman's primary concern. However, you have to admit that when a woman, who is single, and maintains herself in reasonably good shape, (if she has it, great; if not at least exercises some of the time to keep a good body tone), shows a woman who has some pride on how she carries her life. And as far as some women liking tattoos and getting them because they do. Fine too, no problems or bias that they are less than the person that they make themselves out to be by their actions, and character. However; as I said, not in my camp.
Originally Posted By Caroline (11 FEB 2006 6:23am)
I think it's important to have a relationship with the person inside the body, (the actual female person) not just with the body itself, (her breasts, buttocks, etc) if you understand my meaning.
No problem there either Caroline, a relationship is definitively more than just sexual and sensual. To me it can be going out for a walk, and sitting on the park bench just admiring a lake or other passersby without saying a word.
Or it can be sitting in a room and reading a book, while the other is in the room. Just the fact that they are there, even if again; no words are exchanged. It is the presence of the person that is important.
Discussing the days events, listening to the small little things that might sound boring and commonplace can and are very important in drawing two people together emotionally.
These and many other things make up a good relationship. As long as you provide that sense of "we are together in everything".
Watching a tv program, cuddling together and holding each other close is fantastic for me!
Originally Posted By Caroline (11 FEB 2006 6:23am)
As for fetishes. Most men would appreciate a woman sweetly scented and deliciously wrapped and presented in fine lingerie..... but doesn't a fetish mean that something is absolutely essential for arousal?
Absolutely not. That would mean that I would be more interested in the clothing than the woman herselp. My fetishes are once in a while.
You did hit the nail on the head though! After a mutual bath session. Some perfume in strategic locations, with something to cover up the body and momentarily leave some wild desires to the imagination.
http://intimatexpressiongifts.com/page3.html (very nice)
http://www.victorinelingerie.com/senlin.html
http://www.feelconfident.co.uk/index.php nice fetish-on occassions)
http://www.sensual-lingerie.com/showSubEngine.asp?MainId=5 nice on occassions too)
http://www.agentprovocateur.com/ one of my favorites-really makes a woman look GOOD!)
http://www.fredericks.com/default.asp?roiid=720&Xvp=WMLGBRCS TOPS)
http://www.italianmoda.com/index.cfm italians really know how to dress a lady)
http://www.kbella.com/ nice0
http://www.bellamaterna.com/ let's not forget the pregnant lady either)
http://www.bellalingerie.co.uk/ check it out in a few weeks... really good)
Originally Posted By Caroline (11 FEB 2006 6:23am)
I would think any woman would find it boring having to put the bustier on every single time. I can see that she'd deliberately 'forget' to pack it for their round the world second honeymoon and enjoy a bit of liberation, not to mention peace and quiet. [smiley=devil_smiley_grintail.gif]
I would never expect her to wear it all the time. Only on special occasions and with mutual consent. When both of us are in the mood, and only to spice things up! And no! I would not have her with a bustier on our wedding night. Agent Provocateur is what I really would look forward to.
Originally Posted By Caroline (11 FEB 2006 6:23am)
Surely everyone has fantasies that go unfulfilled. Could you ever be happy with a woman who didn't have a figure suitable for a CatWoman suit? What about if she did, but she simply didn't want to? Maybe you'd simply have to make do with whatever was on offer. What's that saying? Any port in a storm?
NO PROBLEM! But before I married her, she would have to be of mind to do some of this, and some more that I shall never, EVER!, post here! [smiley=devil_smiley_grintail.gif]
But again, only with mutual consent, and enjoyment by both of us! [smiley=devil_smiley_grintail.gif]
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| 14 FEB 2006 at 4:56am |
| Deleted User | Originally Posted By Ivinia (9 FEB 2006 7:21pm)
Yes, I agree having someones name on you is quite risky unless it's your child or sibling. I get a kick out of women who have their boyfriends name tattooed on their lower back. Image when they break up with him and date someone else! Poor guy...just imagine doing the Speck 'woof-woof' routine and looking down at some other guys name... :
<ivinia runs...>
Yes, I would rather there be the image of "Not A Speck Or Cereal" there, of course! <woof-woof>
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| 14 FEB 2006 at 5:06am |
| Deleted User | Originally Posted By Avatar (12 FEB 2006 3:28am)
um, I don't think it would be appropriate to post it online... some of the "tattoos" pictured on the site are not quite appropriate for those who are ... sensitive. :-[
and yes... i got another tattoo... it's of a little man with a lawnmower.
Mowing... what exactly?
Realize that Triumph The Insult Comic Dog does not approve of shaving dogs during the summer heat, but cats?
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| 14 FEB 2006 at 11:54am |
MarkGuild Master
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Status : Offline | Originally Posted By Not A Speck Of Cereal (14 FEB 2006 5:06am)
...Realize that Triumph The Insult Comic Dog does not approve of shaving dogs during the summer heat, but cats?
But of course! Why do you think they call them "lawn-meowers"?
Yuck, yuck.
Please proofread your posts carefully to see if you any words out.
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| 14 FEB 2006 at 3:37pm |
The Terror of the Wolf part 3Schattenjger
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Status : Online | The three most common tatoos in the US are
'celtic' or 'tribal' style designs
'chinese' or 'japanese' oriental letters
barbed wire
And most people who get THEM are trying to be unique.
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| 14 FEB 2006 at 4:59pm |
Chris.Schattenjger
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Status : Online | And the Chinese characters usually mean something different than what they are supposed to mean, or have strokes missing, or are even back-to-front :
...not to be confused with Keira Knightley
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